If you aren’t attracting the guys you want, it’s often written in plain sight on your profile.
What if he’s a great guy, but he doesn’t have any kids?
Aim to provide 2-3 accurate head-shots and 2-3 accurate full body photos. Get someone of the opposite sex who you trust to take a look at the photos that you’re considering.
Tell them to be brutally honest about how you appear. Instead of writing something about yourself in the ‘about me’ box, instead there is something along the lines of “I hate filling these out” or “I’ll fill this out later”. Either you have the intelligence level of a centipede or you think you’re too cool to be doing this whole online dating thing. If you don’t know what to write, think along the lines of who, what, when and why.
This is the kind of miracle that can happen when you communicate with clarity and honesty.
I have not been this happy in a relationship in a VERY long time and I'm sure that my new profile helped to get my boyfriend's attention. I was almost ready to give up on the whole concept of online dating before trying e-Cyrano.