At the end of the day, the opinion of others won’t ruin your mood or break you, and that’s ultimately what will keep you succeeding in life. Part of your allure is that you only let select people into your life.
You don’t have a whole slew of girlfriends to keep up appearances – you only have a select few genuine friendships.
Rather than suffer the pain of that loss, men choose to stay uncommitted. I will find someone who deserves me.”Here are three ways men can start building healthy self-respect.1.
But understanding this truth is, I believe, the first step down the road to building better men, and to creating a safer, more peaceful world.
Some of us care way too much about what other people think of us.
This is not indecisiveness, but a form of self-protection.5. There are many reasons (all invalid) that hetero men hate gay men, but why do they find them threatening? Perhaps it is because they are exercising self-respect by finding the courage to go with what they feel within. Because a man with self-respect can say, “She didn’t want me. If you’re in a relationship with a woman, drop the assumption, “She is with me, so I am worthy.” Instead, say to yourself.
Men who are true to themselves and their convictions will always be perceived as threatening to men who remain trapped in their prejudices.♦◊♦When men move towards self-respect and self-validation, male anger and the ugly things that accompany it will dissipate. I am worthy, so she is with me.” Women are not men’s better halves.