(Some wanted sex with men, but the size of the body, wasn't a factor there, either).
Slowly, Alice started posing questions more to the point.
Actually, prior to her introduction to Internet pornography and her subsequent addiction to cybersex chatrooms and illicit sex, she was an exemplary wife and mother, a model citizen in her community, and an active participant in her church.
Men still liked to put things places, and they wanted her involved. After all, these were men from the I-n-t-e-r-n-e-t. Men with issues and insecurities, lies, truths, and carefully cropped pictures of their own. After a number of dates, Alice started going on "dates." There was no pretense. Some Internet "conversation." A bit of investigation to assure she wasn't preparing to meet an axe murderer, someone with a wife, or a really ugly guy. But if not for sex on the Internet, Alice would never have met this man.Well, not everything, but when it came to bodies and sex appeal, magazines, TV, her girlfriends, were full of crap. As it turns out, many of them liked fat women, because they have big breasts, and big asses, and places to squeeze, and put things. That was far more important than a slim waist and a flat tummy. Men didn't want sex with skinny women, they wanted sex with women. This soon led to webcam sex: you know, doing stuff on a webcam. First of all, Alice was lying about what she looked like, and even if she weren't she was sure no one wanted to see her fat body on their computer screen. The most important and exciting thing Alice learned from her cyber teachers was that everything she knew about what men liked was wrong. Some did, some didn't, but no matter what their response, the worst that happened was a blank screen. Take Alice -- she learned about sex from the Internet, which would not be terribly surprising if she were in high school, or even college. She wasn't a virgin and had even been married with what she thought was a good sex life. The kinds of questions she was afraid to ask without the Internet's invisibility. Because regardless of Alice's experiences, good or bad, she was certain they didn't. She tested out various words to articulate her body size. The Internet provides this type of environment for women more than any other vehicle in history." In next month's article I will discuss the myriad of pornography's victims-those who lie in the wake of porn wreckage. The argument can be made that females may spend even more time in the porn underworld-i.e., chatrooms, phone sex, and eventually personal encounters-than males since their world of intimacy involves the need to have more stimulation than just the visual alone to reach the fantasy of fulfillment. They had seen fat women before, and, how to put this? By the by, this man is heavy, stout, rotund, corpulent, or like Alice, fat. While 90% of people who lose weight gain it back, 99.9% of people who gain reckless abandon never lose it.