Serial daters just don’t care enough to make a good impression on you.
They are tired – they are tired of dating in general.
They usually have 3-5 dates lined up with different people for the next few weeks, so they probably won’t even remember your name next week.
Going out on a date with you is no more than going to a quick business lunch or a coffee with a co-worker.
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Why would she bother and try to talk through whatever that issue is?
– she probably got 3 “hey”‘s from new guys while she was on the phone with you.
Serial daters are often a product of this belief that dating is a numbers game, and they think that the more people they meet, the more likely they are to find that one special person.
Therefore they try to go out on a thousand dates, thinking that this will maximize their chances of meeting Mr./Ms. While this kind of approach makes some logical sense, this very strategy of trying to meet as many people as possible is what kills their excitement and emotional availability, ironically leading to the opposite results from the ones desired.