On our 4th and 5th date he suddenly went very cold on me. He then informed me that he was going to see his wife to ‘sort things out and move on one way or the other’ and he hope I understood!I was fine with that but, heard nothing for a few days so naturally I was a little anxious when he eventually text me.I hope you meet men who are divorced for more than a year and healed of the trauma.
I was horrible with money and got our family into major (read: 0,000) debt.
I admit to pushing him to make a few dates along the way but have never text or called him before he has done so.
I’ve not always been available to meet him also which he did not like.
I woke up every day to work a job I hated with every fiber of my being.
All of these circumstances were my own doing, but I took them out on my wife. In 2011, my wife told me that she had had enough, and we separated.