They'll tell you this is all the money the bank will give them and how their family members have invested too.
Then they'll email you copies of contracts to make the deal seem legit and ask you for a loan just until the deal is signed.
Or they will share news of the big business deal they are in.
You'll hear how they just need a little more money to finish it.
But in the online dating world, meeting strangers can be scary and poses a whole host of challenges, among them money scams and identity theft.(Consider the fake Nigerian prince email scams so many of us have received.) Listen to the experts. " says Julie Spira, a leading online dating expert, bestselling author of , and creator of profiles for singles via Cyber Dating "Dating sites (usually) take their members' safety issues very seriously and make it easy for you to report any suspicious profiles or serious problems right away.Some sites even offer the member an option to sign up for a background check." Here are her top tips: • Do a Google search for your date's name. • Use Google Voice and create a phone number exclusive to dating. • If you're uncomfortable on a date for any reason, just get up and walk out. The online daters I spoke to voiced mixed feelings about their experiences.Have it forward to your cell phone, so your dates don't know your cell or home phone number. "I'm still a little wary about it and would prefer the 'love at first sight while petting a dog experience,'" says Agatha B., age 27.Yet when I shared why it sounded like she was becoming attached to someone who was less than honest, she was shocked and couldn't believe this nice man she spoke with on a daily basis was about to take advantage of her.So I told her, if you can't break contact yet, at least stay open to the possibility that he is a scammer and if he asks you for money, promise me two things. Let me tell you, it was not easy, but it would have been harder if she hadn't had support from an objective source.Once the deal is done, they'll wire your money back to your bank account, they tell you. They Have Excuses For Never Being Able To See You They want to see you so badly and even tell you they are making arrangements to travel in a month or two.Never, ever give them access to your financial resources! Yet as the date arrives, suddenly they aren't available and the date gets moved back over and over again. within days you will see a listing pop up with their name and phone number. Move men to the phone and keep calls to a minimum of one to two, then meet ASAP. Thousands of men and women get caught up in these scams.I could see that he had a Facebook friend with whom I'd gone to college.When I asked about that, he told me that the guy was a good friend of his.