There is so much more ecxitement to be had with variety.Including mutual masterbation."Most men jerk off too much to actually have real sex with real women."The men I know who masterbate the most are the best in bed as well.They know what they like and they care about pleasing women.If they can handle mutual masterbation, t hey're not likely ashamed of their body."I get alot of hate mail. Oh my I knew it didn't look right, oh well, maybe I should have said mutual, er, you know, jerking off... I have many Some of them like swimming, playing video games, dancing, reading, listen to music, watching movies, hanging out with friends and visiting the beach for a walk.Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Masturbation , in my opinion ,should be what it is , a private issue., done alone, when needed. I will remind everyone here, that this is "a date and a mate site and NOT a hate site".When with someone else, that other person should learn to turn you on, with their hands and fingers, and then have real sex, which in my opinion is vaginal and penis sex. I am a woman and I am seeking a real man, who understands this and who is attractive and understanding enough to be with me, etc. I don't think it's kinky, I think it's a waste of sexual energy.
Many traditional relationships fail because there is not enough give, and too much take. The person who directed you to our site has been banned from doing business with us.We apologize for any inconvenience that the offending activity may have caused.You just wanted to see people talk about masturbation, didncha? You're not allowed to do anything that you can't spell. Your girlfriends have a much different view then myself or any other guy I know. They are looking at it from a females point of view. But you want to do this with guy, not another girl. Other than that, I think masturbating is by popular definition a solitary activity.On the other hand, (no pun intended), touching ones self while also touching your lover is part of the pleasurable process of making love, and should be encouraged. It was mentioned earlier, but worth restating - it gives both parties an idea of what each other likes, new ideas to try, etc.And I'm a Tuff Guy so I know what I'm talking about. she never had a problem with me probing or using my fingers on her but she never touched herself downstairs for pleasure.But something tells me you're going to do it (and have probably done it countless times) regardless of what anyone here says. "Mutual masturbation is allowed, but only if you spell it correctly. I found it odd Well it's not something to bring up on the first date but you shouldn't worry about bringing it up when the time is right."I don't understand that at all..."What do you think? Yea, that whole college degree in English, yea didn't spell check. I must've been married to the worlds biggest prude."Whatever floats your masturbatory boat, I always say. she not only would never do it infront of me buyt swore she'd never masterbated ever, no toys no fingers nothing.