Anyway, I was really looking forward to him jacking me off and vice versa.
") and contemptuous with intimate partners ("Do you have to stand there, you fucking dumbass? Always was bi but identified as gay because (1) he prefers men as romantic partners and (2) the biphobia he encountered in gay male spaces/bedrooms/buttholes convinced him to stay closeted but he doesn't want to live a lie anymore and he's done hiding from the man he loves but instead of using his words and coming out to you like a grown-up, GAYBYBI, your boyfriend is letting you know he's bi with his porn choices and a big push to make a MMF threesome sound like a sexy adventure you would both enjoy? As for how to handle it, GAYBYBI, you'll have to use your words: Ask your boyfriend if he's bi.Is it reasonable to be put off if rather than simply hearing "Excuse me" when you are inadvertently in someone's way, the person trying to gain access says, "Do you have to stand there?Ryan was so drunk he hardly found the keyhole, then stumbled over the threshold and fell down on the floor.The noise woke up the old landlady a room in whose house he was renting.This week, I discovered he had hidden a Fleshlight from me. He really gets off when I call his ass a "pussy," which I'll do to turn him on, but I find it pretty weird. And if you would never knowingly date a bi guy, tell him he deserves better.He also tells me he gets off on the thought of the two of us fucking a woman together. A relationship question that doesn't involve sex: Occasionally when two people live together, they bump into each other or one may get in the way of the other.Early on, when we discussed how open our marriage should be, we decided it would be all right for me to see escorts several times a year.This gives me some sexual variety and keeps her from feeling threatened by my becoming emotionally involved with a third party.My problem with the world is that it seems to think it is possible to embrace the rights of sex workers and still stigmatize the men who employ them.I am in a happy monogamish marriage, and I enjoy a very good, vanilla-but-bordering-on-tantric sex life with my wife.