According to Hasha, any type of communication is better than none at all.If your friend wasn’t aware of your crush, you might need to explain where you’re coming from a bit more, but it’s still a good idea to share.“This chick just happens to be certifiably nuts.”There’s silence on the end of the other line.
“It may simply take some time to get used to the idea of your friend and love interest being together, and that's perfectly normal.” She also advises that you communicate this to your friend as well, and explain that you might just need some time and space.
She suggests leading with the following: “Hey, I'm not sure if you knew, but I really liked [name of person].
I'm happy that you two seem to have found happiness together, but please understand it may take some time for me to feel comfortable with it.”05.
In JRR Tolkien’s epic trilogy, we’re introduced to a character named Smeagol.
Smeagol used to be a hobbit — a somewhat dwarf-like humanoid race that has large, hairy feet — but discovers a ring of power that quickly poisons his mind and has him become obsessed, leading to the infamous catch phrase, “Much like Smeagol, some women become obsessed and possessed with their boyfriend.