There's plenty out there about the damage missionary dating can do to Christians who do it (it can cause backsliding, violation of one's own convictions, doubts, stress, and so on), but nothing on what it's like for someone on the receiving end.No word or thought anywhere, no suggestion that any Christian has ever paused for a moment to consider how a nonbeliever might feel, or what they might think, when they discover that their loved one has been dating for Jesus.When it comes from an itinerant street preacher or a pair of missionaries knocking on your door, it's annoying.But when it comes from the person with whom you're romantically involved, it's emotionally devastating.Keep praying; keep loving; keep sharing truth with her. We’re a donor-funded ministry, and we rely on friends like you to help keep us going!It involves a believer becoming romantically involved with a nonbeliever, with conversion of the nonbeliever being a priority goal for the believer.It's a deep betrayal of your feelings, your self, and your spirituality.
Peruse a sampling of them, and you'll find that the majority of sites addressing the topic are Christian sites discussing why missionary dating is a bad idea... Interestingly enough, I have yet to come across a page or site that has anything to say about the impact of missionary dating on its non-Christian victims.
If you were thinking about dating a non-Christian don’t.
You probably think nothing will happen, it doesn’t matter, you know better than God, but you’re wrong.
Or is this something I should be letting our new youth pastor know about so he might speak with her? What to do about it is a decision that is easy on paper but tough to actually live out. There should be agreement in any church on what is expected of leadership regarding relationships with the opposite sex, especially given our culture’s current confusion on that issue.
That is something about which the church must be bold and clear so as to not leave any question about the matter.