If you don’t know anything about a woman other than that she’s beautiful, then it doesn’t matter whether you’re in Paris or Pennsylvania – you best bet is to use the same 8 attraction switches until you make her like you. When i approach a beautiful woman, she does start to listen but along the conversation, the spark fades away and eventually get rejected.
I really feel like i didn’t just disappoint myself but i also disappointed that girl too.
If you were a woman, wouldn’t you make the most of your looks (and personality) to get better with men? Of course, most beautiful women have higher standards on average (and less time to develop an interest in, say, your computer game collection), but there’s nothing wrong with standards.
Repeat after me: I love being around beautiful women. One thing that we see over and over in surveys after someone takes a Love Systems Bootcamp/Day Game Workshop and learns how to qualify women is “now I can finally raise my standards and stop settling”.
Of course, getting really good with women isn’t easy. But just because it’s not something you can do in an afternoon doesn’t mean that it has to be to make the most of her genetic gifts and spend the time at the gym, the spa, the mall, the hairdresser, and so on. They think that these women are all vain, or unintelligent, or shallow (or they say that that’s what they think – usually they just resent a history of rejection from beautiful women).
Just like you wouldn’t go back to settling for women you’re not attracted to after you get the skills from a Love Systems bootcamp, a beautiful woman isn’t likely to settle when she gets attention from lots of different men. Men who understand how to flirt and how to seduce a woman without awkwardness. Even if she looks busy or like she doesn’t want to meet anyone – if she’s at a bar, club, party, or somewhere else where people meet her – you’re not going to get any points for being “respectful”.
I am an inclusive Dating Coach and Certified NLP Practitioner dedicated to empowering ALL SINGLES IN ALL LIFESTYLES to have happy, healthy, and enjoyable dating lives that best suit their dating & relationship wants, needs, and objectives.
Some people out there are making dating MUCH too complicated.
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