It was really fun and satisfying, but the contrast in our desires shed light on my interests once again.
Because liking guys was accepted, encouraged and assumed, I think I naturally gravitated toward exploring sex, love and romantic relationships with men since those attractions were apparent to me.
Opening up our relationship, especially within the swinger community, meant I had experimentation with women served to me on a delicious platter.
Carly identified as bisexual and was very attracted to me.
I had grown up in an LGBTQ affirming religious community and was part of my Gay-Straight Alliance in high school.
I definitely identified as an ally to the LGBTQ community, but I never saw myself exploring sex with anyone other than a cisgender man.